New year, New plans

2010 is very challenging year for me because I always had planed my new year schedule but my plan was failed because of my laziness.This year my aim is that I prove and improve my self very siriusly.It is time to look my new year schedule and think about the ways that I would like to improve my life in the coming year.Finally I have some plans for new year and i can share you my few new year resolution.






Wake up early in the morning,Reset my daily life routine.

I want to be a world best mommy.

This year, I will try my best to keep better understanding for me and my husband.

Cut back on time spent watching reality t.v shows.

Spend more time with my in laws.

I will be lose my weight.I will purchase my own trade mil.

I can change my some bad habits.

pray every day and always please my lord Allah and become a righteous muslim.Pray myself and others.Spend more time with god (prayer)

Smile always and be more positive.

Don't get involved in any arguments and controversy.

Save and make more money.

Improve my time management.

I spend more time with my three brothers.

I take us a some new hobby or try some thing new.

Children's like goody bags

Mostly parents are worried about children birthday gifts.They will going to shopping with their kids and They are buying some very costly toys for their kids A big doll house, video games, racing cars and much more but this is not right way to treat your kid are so special for you.This year you give surprise gift, surprise party to your kid and you must enjoy to see your child facial expressions All children likes surprises.I have gives you some very low cost and good surprise gift ideas.


Goodies bags


Children likes a goodies bag.You are gives goodies bag to your kid in every special events.for example Eid, birthday, independent day, children's day, new year, good class test or mid term exam,good behavior etc.

The item on the following list for goodies bag is low cost .You can also try to stock up on items for your goody bags by purchasing things when they are off season.Just use your imagination and shop smart .




Tiny toys

photo albums

Coloring books

Plastic jewelery

Chocolate

Animal puzzles

Stuff toys

Stationery

Playing cards

Removable tattos

stickers

small cars

small dolls

jokes book

story books

Candies

Farzeen First Birthday

I remember my second daughter's first birthday.She was so cute in every picture but this one is my favorite.

farzeen mommy loves you

Chicken potato balls

Ingredients:


Chicken ( bone less ) 1/2 kg
Potato 1/2 kg
Black pepper 1 tsp
Red chili powder 1/2 tsp
Bread crumb 1 cup
Egg 2
salt as to taste
Oil for deep frying



















Method:

Boil chicken and boil potato.

After boiling, peel off the skin of potato.

Take a large bowl,boil bone less chicken and potato mash it by the help of your hand.

Add black pepper, red chili and salt and mix every thing properly in it.

Make a small balls.

Dip these chicken potato balls in the bread crumbs.Roll each other ball around until evenly coated.

Then dip chicken potato balls in to the egg mixture.Lastly, dip chicken potato balls in to the bread crumb mixture again.

Put these chicken potato balls in hot wok for deep frying.Cook the chicken potato balls on each side till golden brown.

Remove chicken potato balls from oil and let cool on paper towel.

Then delicious chicken potato balls are ready to eat.Serve with tomato ketchup and chili souse.

I make sure your children like this Chicken potato balls.Because my daughters like chicken potato balls very much.

Perfect parent's Qualities and Responsibilities

What is parenting?Parenting is not just discipline,It means how to you communicate with your children.What makes a good parents?Good parents grow and apply lessons that they have read.Some parents haven't spent much time around children.I can learn about child development from books or other media but I believe there is no substitute for simply being around the children.Go to school, go to park watch playing children groups and I just watch a lot of different children.I am continually trying to improve myself and my parenting skulls and I have shares some point that will help you understand What makes a perfect parents.


Playing with your kids

Children need to play other children but research shows that play time with parents is also important.Children spent time with parents it makes them feel special.Parents are an encourage to find time spent playing with their children on regular basses.Playing with their kids builds a bond that will last forever.I am regularly playing with my daughters.We watch cartoon DVD ,we are playing hide and see and much more fun together.So this is a best way to improves parents-children communication and refuses behavior problems.





Reading books together

You set regular story time.My girls are seven and three and we read them give us opportunity to have spent time.Plus we get to see how much they actually comprehend from longer stories.Last night we read together "Six little wizards" and "Dancing doll."




Encourage your children

More important thing is that you always encourage your children and showing your children that you love them by giving your time and attention.Playing games, reading books and talking show your love.Encourage is very valuable.Every child needs to feel like their parents are their best friend.




Co-sleeping

Co sleeping is an important step in practicing attachment with their babies and young children.Many children continue to co sleep some of the time or even all the time until they are past the elementary school years.We have to co sleep with our three year daughter because some times she starts crying during the night and usually she quickly calms down and goes back to sleep.If I just hold her in my arms last night this happened two or three times.I don't mind holding her if she needs to be comforted.





Give your children responsibility

Give your children responsibilities because this is a good way to build up your child confidence.My seven year daughter is required to make her own sandwich.My children are responsible for helping clean up the house and cleaning their own room.Children need to understand that they are responsible for their own actions.



Kids love music

I love music, kids love music.The problem's some people par-porting to make children s music obviously hate parents.They are not taken on children either, come to thankful it won't because they are young does not mean they don't near they don't have any taste but let face it.My daughters daily listen poems and songs and we all enjoy music.

This barney song is my daughters favorite song

I love you, you love me

we are happy family

with a great big hug and

kiss from me to you wont

you say you love me to

I love you, you love me

we are happy family

like a friend should be

with a great big hug

and kiss from me to you

wont you say you love

me to.

My mother's spirit contact me through my dreams

Dreams are scenes of daily day life happenings in real life.It means sense we want to understand what our dreams are saying to us.Some dream can be playful, some dark and some very emotional but I believe dreams because some dreams are different.They leave a permanent impact on the mind of the dreamer.They are not forgotten, ever until death.

There are few way that I know if my dreams included communication from my mother spirit.



First sign:

The first sign is that my dreams was significantly more vivid than my typical dreams.

Second sign:

Another sign is that my dreams involved a direct connection with my mother spirit is that I believed she was dead and I am very surprised to see or hear her.I wake up knowing that it was an important dream that means something and absolutely must be remembered.





Anyways friends, I should must be write down here every single detail I can remember about my dreams.Whether you judge it seemed significant or not.

My mother passed away six month.She survive her illness in last two years.After her death I was nerves breakdown and I stayed hospital in two days.That time I felt very lonely because I am only daughter to my mother.I was very closed to her and love her.
When after her death.I have dreams about her.She always tells me she's alright.Most of the time I just go and hug her and I keep saying "AMMI" I miss you a lot.I don't know if this means any thing but some times it feels like her's around me and just watching over us.I especially think about her at night and I start crying but I feel like she's fine and happy.I am fascinated by my dreams and their hidden messages for me.If I can understand this knowledge to change my life better way.In short I understand my mother's messages she is fine and happy and she wants to see me happy so I will try my best and this is the place to start.keep smile.

Coconut's sweets

My daughters love sweets, candies, chocolate and ice cakes.I always try to makes new sweets recipes.I think all kids love coconut and its better way to treat them serving up delicious coconut sweet,it is easy to make and less expensive as it does not require ghee.

Ingredients:

3 cup Chopped coconuts
3 cup Fresh cream
3 cup Sugar

Method:

• Heat the cream, saute it well for two minutes.
  
  
• Add sugar, keep stirring till the sugar completely melt.
  
  
• After sugar melt add chopped coconut.
  
  
• Do not allow it coconut to turn brown.
  
  
• Stirring at once in a while till it thickness.
  
  
• Become dry coconut sweet you add chopped almonds.
  
  
• Then pour in to plate with a flat spoon.
  
  
  
  when coconut sweet ready. cut into square and diamond shape with sharp knife.After it is completely cooled, put it in the refrigerator ,coconut sweet ready to eat.ENJOY.
  
  
  
  

Human color psychology

Color psychology refer to investigating the effect of color on human behavior and feeling. Color symbolism and psychology mostly perfect fit for every one.Infect each color show very different psychology function in people.For example thousands of girls like "pink"color and obvisly that color show these girls soft emotion, kindness, innocence and child like features.

1. Red
   Red color is symbol of passion, intensity, good luck, sex, love, romance, ambition, leadership, power, blood and war.In astrology red color is believed to be more suitable for Virgo and libra.
   
   
   
   
   
   
   
   
   
   
   
   
   
   
   
   
   
2. White
   
   White color is symbol of peace, snow, truth, security, winter, innocence, air, surrender, life and hope.In astrology white color is believed to be more suitable for Aquarius and leo.
   
   
   
   
   
   
   
   
   
   
   
   
   
   
   
   
   
   
   
   
3. Green
   
   Green color is symbol of intelligence, nature, youth, money, good luck and jealousy.In astrology green color is believed to be more suitable for Cancer and pieses.
   
   
   
   
   
   
   
   
   
   
4. Black
   
   Black color is symbol of power, modernity, formality, wealth, mystery, style, evil, death, fear, darkness, unity and professionalism.In astrology black color is believed to be more suitable for Capricorn and scorpio.
   
   
   
   
   
5. Pink
   
   Pink color is symbol of love, health,romance, joy, sympathy, innocence and child like features.In astrology pink color is believed to be more suitable for Scorpio and suggtirous.
   
   
   
   
   
   
   
   
   
   
   
   
   
   
   
   
6. Yellow
   
   Yellow color is symbol of sunlight, joy, happiness, earth, illness and greed.In astrology yellow color is believed to be more suitable for Gemnai and taurus.
   
   
   
   
   
   
   
   
   
   
   
   
   
   
   
   
   
7. Blue
   
   Blue color is symbol of confidence, security, soft spoken, wealth, depression, coldness and illness.In astrology blue color is believed to be more suitable for Paices and aquarius.
   
   
   
   
   
   
   
   
   
   
   
   
   
   
   
   
   
   
8. Orange
   
   Orange color is symbol of happiness, balance, heat, fire, playfulness, arrogance, over-emotion and danger.In astrology orange color is believed to be more suitable for Virgo and cancer.
   
   
   
   
   
   
   
   

Children's fears

Young children often have fears.They can be afraid of the dark,animal,noises,stranger,cartoon character or being alone "Hearing" a child's fear mean to listen and be supportive.










My three year old daughter fears cartoon character.Some days before she watch alone cartoon every time and i had no problem for her watching cartoon hobby but one night she watched cartoon and then she suddenly crying and refused to watch cartoon.I'm worried for her bhevior and i trying to understand her problem.

A child personality can effect how he deals with fears.Children need adults who will understand and help them with their felling.Ignoring a fear can make it strong and create even more fear.So solve my daughter fears and i am very glad to write here "How can solve my daughter fears. Way to help young children with their fears

1. Do not force your child to face fear head on.This could turn a simple fear in to a phobia.
2. Calmly explain the truth,If is afraid of cartoon monsters on the t.v,check and tell him every thing that is really on the t.v.
3. Use blanket and toys to help calm,A favorite blanket or stuff animal can feel protective.Imagination can be the roof of fear but it can also help over come the felling.
4. Accept your child fear,If your child insists there is a monster(because it is real to him),accept it and offer a solution."here 's some monster dust to protect you."
5. Carefully supervise what your child watches on television.With today's special effects in movies and t.v.we can forget a young child doesn't know the diffrence between what real and no pretend.
6. Read books that help "master" their fears,IF a child is afraid monster,read story books of monster,just like "there's an alligator under my bed".Books help calm fears.
   

MY FAVORITE SINGER SHAKIRA'S SONG

Shilpa wedding

SILPA SHETTY GETTING MARRIGE

Finaly shilpa get engaged her business man boy friend raaj kunda.The silpa weeding is due to held in december.

B.B winner shilpa'swedding date has been fixied in december but date has been set.

Her sister shimta shetty could not attend the wedding as she was locked in big boss 3 house.shilpa want to shimta quit this reality show because she want shimtta must be pressent for her wedding.

FAKE INDIAN TV SHOW

''PERFECT BRIDE'' Many indian t.v channel's play daily reality shows in their famous channel's.Public are crazy about these "REALITY SHOW"S''.But many shows are fake.They are playing with audience emotion's.PERFECT BRIDE one of them.First afall this STAR PLUS show copy by another american reality show.Their culture are totally different to our asian culture .they are very broad minded people.Even their law allaw contract marriag's. many indian's and pakistani were going to america and make contract marriage with american nationality girl for take a american nationality.

Star plus PERFECT BRIDE show people like so much.But people don't know this show contestant are not contestant.They all are actor.Yesterday i watched ZOOM T.V programme PLANET BOLLYWOOD.This programme throw i realized they are all straggling actor and actress.POOJA TANDAN is one of them and she was acting in hyderabad movie's.PRYANKA SHARMA is also straggling news anchor .RAAJBEER is model and they are all polish their career in this reality show.Daily episode they all play scripted drama on the set.I well understand their publicity stunt.

1. They all are crying in every episode .

2. Every actor try to show INNOCENT and HONEST.

3. male actor every time reedy to beaten other actor.................. SO i want to say that friend please keep avoid this fake reality show.

WEEDING DATE FIX FUNCTION AND FOOD RESPONSIBLITY

Yesterday|we arrange my sister in law weeding date fix function .I woke up early morning.after break fast i went to mother in law house. I cooked very delicious food for tonight's party.I returned my home at7o'cloak and took a bath after bath i changed my children's clothes. I then changed into my party dress.

Then we went to my mother in law's house again.Party was so boring. men discussed their business status and women talked about their jewelery and dresses.

Some women set on a mat and sung songs on "DHOOLAK''.Suddenly Electricity went off and guests started to leave. Electricity came back in one hour but all guests were gone by that time.

I was feeling hungry and tired so I came back to my HOME SWEET HOME by 12o'cloak at night. Another busy day was over but I felt happy because I had done well with my food responsiblity.Every geust loved my food and ever body appreciate me so i FELT good .

My mother memories

Today ,i feel so tired and feel little bit tampreater . But i still done kitchin work and my noughty doughter handle also but its OK.in eveing my mother in law coming my house and said 'Uwill come my home twommaro early moring beacuse you will cook all party food and serve also.soyou will not late twommaro.She don't asked about my tampreture and than she was gone . I feell so sad after this meeting .my 'AMMI' was like my friend,sister and well wisher but she was died and after her death i feel so lonley .Mother in law defintly not like mother beacuse she is too much selfish to me and use me also . I respect her like my mother but she don't understand my feeling and abusse me.

Hello World

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