So what do you think?Is this a common problem with children of her age, is there some thing that I can do?She said she can't live with out me for five hours.I am little bit nerves about her behavior.Her elder sister and my first daughter minahil goes to school and she see he sister preparing for school daily.she said innocently ,"Mommy I don't want to go school because first of all "Ayeel Api " goes to school lonely in her school bus and secondly I don't like to leave you."
I decided to solve her problems.I tried to try ask her a few questions.
"why are you feeling this way.Is it because you think you will miss me during the day?"
She said "Yes mommy I miss you in school hours."
I said "OK , I can help you, I can go to school and stay with you in a few minutes daily.In the classroom you will make new friends and you will enjoy to coloring pictures and singing poems,It is totally fun you would enjoy a lot believe me."
She surprised me and said "OK, fine I will go to school but you stay with me."I am very glad to hear her making the decision but I am still worried is there something that I can do to help her feel better?
It is difficult for many children to feel this way about their first day in the school. Yes you did the right thing about assuring her that you will be there. She will be fine dont worry
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